If she leased the house, the lease controls. If she's the owner, the calculus is different. But your question doesn't make the issue clear.

Filing a divorce

No, you can not file for a divorce while there's already a case pending. You should hire an attorney in the state in which the divorce case is...

Common Law?? Splitting up

You will need to consult a local divorce lawyer to handle the divorce paperwork, and a real estate attorney to handle the property transfer.

Should we get divorced, an annulment, or legal separation?

An annulment requires a showing that you were induced to enter into the marriage by fraud. On the facts you offer there's no proof of fraud.

Do i have to pay support for baby mother to get in shelter

You're not permitted to make an agreement that avoids your obligation to pay child support while the mother moves onto public assistance.

Deed

Yes you can hire an attorney, and if you have a judgment for back support that attorney can issue an information subpoena and require him to...

What are the chances of judge modifying an order of protection if person with order has made an appeal to both the judge and DA?

It's not clear as to the specifics of the order - but if the person in whose favor the order was granted no longer wants the order that person can...

Any of you lawyers on this website pro bono ?

If you can't afford an attorney you can see if you qualify for poor person's status and appointed counsel. The clerk of the court will be able to...

You should retain a local attorney.

Marriage Overseas, and husband stays overseas

You can file in California if you meet that state's residency requirement. But no you can not serve by mail, unless there is something extremely...