How do I verify i'm getting 1/2 of his retirement as stated by military. what do I need to do to get my full 1/2 & backpay

You shouldn't be getting it from him. You should have had a Qualified Domestic Relations Order as part of your divorce. If you didn't presumably...

Can you get a divorce in a different county than you were married in?

Yes.

If I live in dif state from my husb only because of work and school..can he say I abandoned him and win case?

There is no relevant charge. However, you should discuss your situation with a divorce lawyer.

Dispute with wife...

A divorce lawyer would be a good start.

Should I be paying more in child support than the order requires?

You are not legally obligated until the order is modified.

Are 1904-1914 NYC divorce cases on LexisNexis? In particular, is this person there?

No. Divorce records in New York are sealed.

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Im 16 and all i do is clean n watch my lil brother im not happy at all n all my mom n her bf do is fight can i be emancipation?

At age 16 you have virtually no chance of emancipating yourself. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't seek help from a school counselor, someone at...

Can my father in law throw us out?

If the father is a resident of the house and says that presents sufficient allegations showing he's in fear or seriously threatened it's unlikely...

If you're concerned you should consult with a local attorney about taking a petition to Family Court that would alter the parenting plan for you...

Do i still need to carry my wife on my health insuance,

That depends on where you are in the process and upon what you've stipulated to in your preliminary conference (or subsequently).