Ground for divorce

The former.

Can a judge force me to give up all my rights to our home in a divorce even though the house is in foreclosure?

If you can't agree on a property settlement the judge can and must reach a decision.

You can try to hire a new attorney and have the agreement reviewed, but i think you may be stuck with what you signed.

Divorce

It depends. If you think you can navigate the court system yourself, you're free to try. Most people find it easier and more efficient to hire a...

I filed for divorce in November, 2009. Trial date is in January 2011. Shouldn't my husband be paying child support until then?

Yes.

The only way to make an amendment is to do so my mutual agreement.

If I move out and file for divorce with shared custody will I have to pay my husband alimony?

Under those circumstances it would seem unlikely - but you should consult a local divorce lawyer to discuss the case in more detail.

Does it matter if you get a lawyer in your own state or out of state

It matters. Your lawyer must be licensed in the state in which the case is held or admitted to practice locally on what's known as a pro hac vice...

Can I reopen a divorce case.....

It depends - what aspect are you trying to re-open. An appeal may be more efficient. You should discuss this in detail with a local attorney.

My divorce was done in chambers, not in open court with no witnesses, by Chief Judge Jerimah in ri family court, then he retired

You should immediately contact a local appeals lawyer who deals in divorce. The statute of limitations on an appeal is often very short.