Attorneys answering this question can only provide opinions, as there have been no court decisions or interpretations which carry weight as of yet....

Can I deposit my ex boyfriend’s stimulus check without consequence to pay off damages made to my apt & stolen property?

If you do, there will eventually be a warrant for your arrest.

I would ask a tax expert. If none available, try Google

It’s legal in New York to have sex once you turn 17.

Legally? If you are not being arrested and not interfering with their search efforts, there is no excuse to handcuff you. Assuming that you were...

I do not think that there is a "usual" cost. An attorney charges for his time at a rate he determines with the client. The amount of time needed...

That's the job of the DA. An investigator or police will see if you have proof and then cause an arrest if theft occurred.

She can call whomever she likes, but there is no crime alleged in your facts.

Burglary charge?

Not just extreme but absurd. If the proof at trial confirms the facts, a burglary conviction is impossible, assuming that the two know each other...

Is it legal for my parole officer to come by my house every morning ?

Yes it is legal, but highly unusual. Can you think of a reason why?