Should we involve a lawyer (without involving with PO preferably- don't want to potentially piss him off) or call Albany?

Without the parole officers cooperation, the chances of getting him early termination are near impossible.

Summons or arrested question

You were lucky. Next time maybe not.

What can a defendant gather after the first plea offer in criminal case? Do this rethings are going to end up

It could mean anything. Your lawyer would know better whether the offer will go down or up.

Pink summons, Trespassing

Often, small matters are simply dismissed rather than ACD. The results are the same only faster.

What could the court do becuase its not an alcohol related violation

Don't wait for the Court to notify you. If you have the funds, do it now. If not, contact your attorney and have him speak to the prosecutor and...

It would be sexual misconduct. A womans breasts are protected as wel as her rear end and vagina.

Accused of rape

It will depend on what the victim claims occurred. If she says she was drunk and did not consent, than you are facing Rape 1. You should speak...

Can I get in trouble for it

Neither marrying or having sex would be a crime in NY.

If you received summons for a violation why does it go to criminal court?

If you received a summons for a violation of the penal law or some other statutes, it is returnable in CRIMINAL COURT, as you face a possible jail...

Can she press charges on the 23 year old not the 17 year old?

She can report the matter to the police and they can arrest him for giving alcohol; to a minor and also possibly other crimes.