Can my daughter leave the state of ny with a open case

Absent any travel conditions set by the judge in either Family Court or Criminal Court, she can travel anywhere.

Is my daughter eligible?

I believe that Montgomery is only eligible to those serving sentences of one to ___ years. I do not think she is eligible.

Can i get arrested for phone calls and records that's not even under my name? (pre paid phone)

If the order of protection forbade telephone calls to your girlfriend, and she claims that you made them, you can be arrested.

Can mistakes like this happen

Things do not get marked. They either occur or don't.

What is the possible out come of my friend being charged wt falsely reporting an incident plus he is on parole. ..if found guilt

He could be violated by parole and get an additional year if convicted for the new crime.

No its not good news. Definitely bad news. The DA believes that you should be charged with a felony.

What am I to do? Is this considered kidnapping?

Her conduct is criminal, but not kidnapping. It's called custodial interference. Have the police gotten involved?

Will he do jail time for sure this time he have drug felonies from the past for last four years we have domestic violence

After awhile, prosecutors and judges get tired of repeat offenders. Jail seems likely if convicted and prison is possible on the felony.

Does anyone know the possible length of jail time for that charge or would the judge possibly give another treatment option ?

Its up to the Court, but on a conviction for Section 220.39 he faces up to 15 years in prison.

Do you think that's enough to even take me to court or should I just tell them where I was?

You should tell your lawyer where you were, as well as everything else, and let him advise you.