Can I apply for early termination of probation at a year and a half for a first time offence class e felony 5 year probation

You can apply at any time, but unless you supply the Judge with compelling reasons, it will probably be denied as premature.

No. The terms of your supervised release did not cover past bad acts.

Can someone be kicked out of a publicly attended shul for being single?

Yes, Churches are exempt from public use categories and single people are not a protected group like women, gays, etc.

What to expect

Unless she catches a prosecutor and judge in horrible moods, little or no chance of jail.

What can I expect?

In NYC, slim to none, but in Rochester, maybe possible.

I would go to the clerk of the court and get a certificate of disposition. If you were convicted of a crime you must disclose it when questioned,...

Will i go to jail?

The likelihood of her going to jail is remote at best.

Not normally.....................................................

If I was arrested in one state can I be paroled or released to a half way house in another state

The Federal Prison system attempts to release people to half way houses in the area where the prisoner lived or plans to live with family.

Can i internationally travel if i have a court date coming up?

If the terms of your probation forbid international travel, the answer is obvious. If not, you are free to travel. You might ask your trial...