How can I turn temporary custody over to someone else

If custody was granted by a court, only a court can change it...........................

Can i tell the judge that she was consume with drugs on she got violence.

You need a lawyer..................................

I have a question can u get house arrest for being a look out?

If he is innocent than he should get his lawyer to speak to the prosecutor about cooperation.

Can u ask for weekend jail time on a petty larceny charge?

Speak to your attorney. Judges get suspicious when a defendant prefers to be jailed rather than have his behavior monitored by probation.

A question better asked of a family law expert, but the way to proceed would be to file a motion to amend his rights to visitation.

New charge “ CO ZT (court order)

That is not a charge under the Penal Law..........

Sounds unlikely, as you admitted to having resisted a lawful arrest.............

Will a police report afeect my husband status?

If he was not arrested, there should not be a problem. Arrest does not require handcuffs. It could be as simple as being handed a piece of paper...

The maximum sentence is one year in jail............

What are the chances that the case gets dropped as opposed to having the misdemeanor on my record? ?

I tend to agree that this sounds fishy, as I have never heard of a "mail in second chance program". In NYC, the chance of a dismissal or an ACD is...