You should be concerned, you should also spend a few dollars and consult with an immigration attorney.

H1b RFE

Should speak with the attorney who filed it, if non was hired, hire one now.

Visiting overseas after having green card

If you plan on staying out of the US for more than 6 months you should get a reentry permit.

Puedo volver a usa si estuve ilegal menos de un año ??

Can you use what again? your tourist visa? Most likely if you over stayed you would not be able to use it again, if you stayed more than 180 days...

Puedo volver a usa si estuve ilegal menos de un año ??

Can you use what again? your tourist visa? Most likely if you over stayed you would not be able to use it again, if you stayed more than 180 days...

J2 to H1

Is your employer H-1b cap exempt? You should speak with the attorney filing the visa for your employer.

I can't afford a lawyer, My wife wants a divorce and I didn't apply for my green card yet, am I going to be deported after that?

Asking again doesnt change the answer. You will most likely not get deported unless you come to the government's attention, but you will be illegal...

My wife wants a divorce, and I still didn't apply for the green card !! Am I going to be deported after the divorce or not ?????

It's unlikely you'd be deported, but it is possible. What status are you in now?

Adverse immigration consequence

You should meet with an immigration attorney to review your file in its entirety.

You have a lot of questions. How is your husband getting his gc? If you can file with him, you could get a work and travel document within a few...