Can I sue my public college for overreach from the coordinator of a program?

You can appeal again internally or you can bring an action against the school.

How to calculate damages caused to student by slander? How much is a wrongful suspension worth?

Before calculating your damages you need to make sure the statements were not privileged.

How to stop ex spouse harassment?

If he is threatening her you can file for an order of protection.

Joint custody.

You can always apply for joint custody. The question is the best interest of the child.

What laws has she broken. What can I do

You should talk to the judge and see if the judge will refer the case to the da for charges.

How soon is Judge's Decision "entered"? Decision was made 31Jan2017. Who is responsible for "entering" it?

It takes time for the court to enter your decision in the clerks office.

If the district attorney will pursue a claim, this is your best option.

You do not need to show her the apartment. The question is whether it is worth it for you to return to court and fight her over this issue, or...

What can I do to postpone a custody decision?

If you inform the judge as to what is going on the judge may be willing to postpone the trial. At the least, speak with your children's attorney...

Just lost my job. Can my Ex wife go after my wife income for child support

Yes, they can impute income on you based on your ability to obtain employment.