Is it okay not to start work right away while my H1b cap exempt visa approval is still pending?

As you have an attorney talk to him/her.

Me and my wife live seperately and we intend to file for AOS through marriage

Joint residence is important , officer may suspect that marriage is not bona fide.

Should i file for the Dream Act or fix papers thru my husband?

Dream act is not a permanent resident status, if you married to the U.S. citizen, you may obtain a permanent residence.

Will my criminal record affect the application of "adjust of status" for my wife?

Your criminal record is not a problem for spouses's case. Did you file a petition for her and it was approved?

Please help, a copy or certified copy in my file?

If an officer got a copy, it is not a problem, when you will be applying for naturalization, you will bring certified copy again.

I got denial on my I-485 Application (3.26.13) cause pending criminal case (DWI). On 4.9.13 I accepted offer of D.A. Offer was:

You have to talk with your attorney, if you are looking for a second opinion, you have to bring your file to attorney's review and evaluation.

I filed for my employment authorization after having my asylum,withholding, CAT application pending

you convictions are serious one, hire an immigration attorney.

MY asylum application is pending. MY HUSBAND LIVES OUTSIDE USA . I want to file the divorce, what document do I need to get?

In order to file for divorce in US, you need to comply with requirements of jurisdiction you live in.

Certificate of birth is controlling, but you have to fix all documents to avoid fraud issues.

Does the three year ban begin after returning from overstaying the visa or after the last time a person came in legally?

I would suggest to consult an immigration attorney for a detailed evaluation with full copies of passport and statements that she made at the...