My fiance and I are on the same case were co-defendant another words.....I have a little over a year trying to visit I do what

I don't understand your question. You want to visit your fiancé in jail?

Can a judge order that I personally appear in my divorce case..even though I have a lawyer representation?

I'm sure the judge has reasons for wanting you in court. I suggest you be there if you want to have success in your case.

Anti harassment order?

You can go to court and try to get a temporary restraining order.

I would not even consider pleading guilty unless you consult a local attorney.

How do you remove the opposing counsel?

Welcome to our world. Some attorneys are rude and obnoxious.....some are not.....I'm not exactly sure what you can do about it.

Can a courthouse hold you in jail for 30 days on suspicion of misdimeter without a conviction?

Im not exactly sure what transpired, but i suggest you consult a local attorney for guidance.

My son went to walmart with a friend and the friend knew the lady who put 1,500 on a pre-paid visa card and he spend the money.

It depends on the evidence they have. While mere presence is not enough to convict someone, if there is evidence that he was w the other kud when...

What will happen if I do not turn myself into jail on the assigned date?

Simple. There is likely a warrant issued for your arrest. If you are stopped for anything, the warrant could pop and you would go to jail for...

In trouble....what will happen to me.

You need to either hire an attorney or, if you can't afford one, ask the court to assign one to you. And don't talk about specific facts of your...

What is the likely outcome of driving on suspended license? What should plead, guilty or no contest?

You should absolutely consult an attorney before you consider pleading to anything.