Can a 18 year old get charged for having sex with a 14 year old who got her high on marijuana?

Yes. He faces very serious criminal charges.

New York does not expunge convictions. Under a new law some cases can be sealed but not sex crimes.

Asult?

If you're the victim of assault, call the police. If you've been accused of assaulting someone, hire an experienced defense attorney.

I have a problem with marijuana and I had an ACD recently and was caught with less than a gram of concentrate last night

Definitely start counseling and hire an attorney to minimize the consequences of your habit.

I went to the park with my girlfriend late at night an a cop saw us an charged us of Trespassing(140.5) should I plead guilty?

Don't plead guilty. Hire an attorney. There are ways to get the charge dismissed.

No. The police are allowed to lie about the evidence they have against you.

Since it is the State of New York pressing charges only the state can drop them. You are merely a witness at this point. Speak to the DA and let...

IIs the first plea deal the highest they can charge you with. Because i had 2 felonies but they charging me with a misdemeanor

Some times plea offers go up, sometimes they go down. Misdemeanor deals are generally considered very good offers on felony cases. Speak to your...

Looking for advice on charges?

Your wife isn't pressing charges, the State of NY is. Given the charges, it doesn't sound unreasonable but more facts would be necessary to say...

What if the defendant pays restitution , can the charges be dropped completely

They can but it's unlikely. This is not a civil matter where the value is the only issue. The DA wants to punish for the conduct of taking it in...