The short answer is No, you cannot. There’s no valid reason why she cannot testify against you. Your attorney will try to discredit her testimony...

No one is going to give you advice on committing a new crime.

One has no bearing on the other especially in light of the fact that the burden of proof required to convict someone of a crime in criminal court...

Was the person served the order? It’s likely still valid but I would amend it with the correct spelling.

Typically it’s the underlying act of domestic violence (which violated the order of protection) that is the crime of moral turpitude

You likely qualify for an ACD (adjournment in contemplation of dismissal). Under CPL 170.55 you can agree to perform community service and/or...

It’s likely a cash alternative but check with his lawyer to be sure.

Ask your probation officer to be certain. Why risk being violated to go lose money in a Casio.

There’s no way anyone can know, your son can ask them why he was denied or have his attorney find out.

If you girlfriend has a criminal history of her own, that is likely the reason they are prohibiting it.