Will I qualify for Alimony in Divorce?

If he earns substantially more and there is a demonstrated need you could get alimony for a fixed period of time.

Yo would need to file a paternity action once the baby is born. But understand that if the baby is found to be his he will have to pay child support.

Once you have a copy of your divorce decree in hand you are free to marry.

My exboyfriend said he’s going out to California for business and he wants to change the court date can he do this ?

Go to court and proceed with the case. He will not likely be excused. If you have proof of what he was earning make sure to bring it with you.

Can you be married with someone new but in a Domestic Partnership with someone else ?

No. You cannot have both at the same time.

How do I respond to a potential order of protection against my abusive aunt?

Protect yourself and stay away. If she filed for an order of protection you need to defend against it.

Change of state court?

It is not really possible. She may try if the child lives in NY then it stays in NY.

Moved out. Divorce not final. She changed the locks to house and refuses to let me see children without advanced notice.Options?

You need to file for access to the children asap. As far ad the finances more information is needed.

Will he get visitation? What would be appropriate visitation of the judge decides to?

It seems highly unlikely that he would get custody but he may get supervised visits to start and maybe phone calls. It does sound like this is...

Can the amount I pay for room and board be credited against my child support obligation for my 21 year old child?

Read through you divorce agreement that dictates this. Or you may be eligible for a downward mod if you cannot afford to pay both and your income...