What is the name of the petition I need to file to "enforce" my visitation?

Girl and enforcement petition and violation petition ASAP.

My son takes his children , shopping , pays her bills, take care of her daughter not his, now i suggest he start paying a court

He can file a petition for child support in court. I strongly suggest he speak to an attorney first.

Noncustodial wants to change a temporary visitation order

You do.m not have to accommodate him. He needs to follow the order of the court as do you.

Do I have to wait before getting a divorce jn New York for a No-Fault?

You do not need to wait. So long as your marriage has not been working for the past 6 months.

How can i have paternity dissolution done in nys when i have proof that i am not the father? My "daughter" is 12 yrs old.

It may be too late since the child believes you are her father but you should file a motion to vacate in family court.

If I got to court what are my chances of winning.

Your kids are old enough and have a voice. They will be heard in court if they do not want to be around their Dad’s girlfriend.

I filed a D.V. report with the police in 6/2018. The abuse occurred in 4/2018. The B.P.D said i couldnt do anything? Is that tru

It is true. The delay in your reporting is an issue and the lack of injury is an issue.

I cut my siblings off. II don't want them to know if I am sick or dying. or dead. Can a lawyer honor this?

Yes. You can do this. Speak to an attorney.

You can only file against her if she has done something to you that rises to a family offense.

What can I do to get emergency custody on the weekend?

Make sure you have a place to take your daughter and then take her an go.