Is there any ways to have an automatic divorce if Iam not seeing and communicating with my wife for 6 years now?

There is no such thing as an automatic divorce. You can file a divorce in the country in which you reside if you meet the resedency requirements.

Is there anything I can do here in the U.S. What are my options.

There is really nothing you can do on this end. She has to do it through the courts in her country or through an agreement with him.

Is it a crime to do this? if so what is it called?

Not a crime as described. You may want to move though.

How do I get my daughters medical claims released to me if I have full legal custody?

You may need a court order you can try by sending them the decree but it is his plan he is the primary so they may only provide the information if...

If the judge in my county dismissed my petition for an order of protection can I go to the respondents county and file for one

It would not be granted if the same events were the subject of the petition that was dismissed in your county.

Are there any issues or things that need to be addressed if I send the paperwork to the judge?

It needs to be done by your attorney or properly by someone who can get it done. Don't wait on this.

What do I do if I don't agree to everything on the divorce papers?

What papers? The uncontested filing? A stipulation of settlement? If you don't agree don't sign anything take it to an attorney.

Divorce

You can contest but it will be granted to him in any case.

I will repost this to a proper subject so you can get direction.

What sort of a source of income can be considered in alimony/maintenance?

What type of disability income? If it is SSI then it could not be considered. Child support received for children will not be calculated as income.