She holds final say in Education, I want to enroll him in Kumon- do I need permission?

You do need her permission but if you offer to pay all and on your time I do not see why she could say no.

Can my husband kick me out of the apartment even though I'm disable??

He can’t just kick you out. He needs to file for divorce and it needs to be done through the court. If he tried to kick you out call the police.

Can harrasment charges be pressed against someone who blows up your phone all week when you are currently in a custody battle?

She can file for an order of protection based on his harassment.

Can I be evicted from the apartment because I have a temporary restraining order?

It is not an eviction but if there is a restraining order you can be excluded from your home.

What are the chances my ex will get custody?

Any attorney would need to really understand much more about the situation to give you an estimate of your chances.

Not automatically, they do it if he denies being the father and you ask for a test.

I've been a stay at home wife due to my disability. I have no income or family I can get help. Can my husband put me out.

No he cannot put you out. If he tries call the police.

Can I legally withhold my daughter until court?

If it is in violation of the court order then it would not be “legally”.

You need to get an attorney and plan on how you will proceed here.

My husband have felony in nyc but at Boston got him for child support this affect him on probation at here nyc ?

His probation office will know the terms of his parole and if child support is an issue.