If I leave does that make me lose any rights of my child? Would it be considered abandoning the child? Could I go for custody?

File a petition for joint legal custody and shared physical custody.

Can my regular marriage certificate from NYC be used in Toronto? Or do I need it certified? How long will divorce process take?

You need to ask the court in Toronto if they need a certified copy. The courts in New York do not need a copy.

Kids' classes during the spouse's visitation

He should be taking her needs into account. It is his visitation time but he should be accommodating her needs. You may need to consult an attorney...

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What happens if my wife agrees to joint custody?

You still have to pay child support.

Can I challenge paternity?

If there is a court order in Canada then it will not be interrupted by a divorce in New York especially if the child resides in Canada.

Can someone file an order of protection on you for an incident that happened outside of the 50 USA States?

Yes. This is possible in fact she is well informed and sounds like she will be filing.

Can a divorce decree be changed without your permission?

The plaintiff's side prepares a final decree which should be sent to your attorney for review. It will not change the term a of the stipulation of...

How Can I Protect Myself/Stop someone from filling a false order of protection breach, false accusation, cases or police reports

You need to protect yourself by documenting everything in your life to show where you are and what you are doing. Even then you also need a good...

Is non custodial parent required to make payments if switched to a new job and they are not garnishing yet?

He is mistaken. He is supposed to send the payment to the enforcement unit directly till the garnishment starts.

Can do you advise me how to behave, what to say to the judge and how to prepare?

be respectful and polite and explain your position calmly.