Is there any way to change how child support is collected with if you choose to have the state give you the funds?

I would agree to it if he agrees to your relocation which is not easy to get. You may want to say that if he is delinquent for a certain period of...

What will happen if I don't provide tax info for a job I got paid under the table for?

If you were paid under the table there is no tax info to provide. However, if you are asked to provide (which I am certain you have been and will...

Can I petition the court for child support even if someone else signed the birth certificate

You have to file a paternity petition and support will follow.

Hire an attorney asap. Don't miss that court date.

How long it take to get final divorce after it's signed ?

They are currently behind although it may be ready at present. Call and ask if it is ready.

How should I handle filing for an at-fault divorce so I am prepared & on record if I can't resolve her adultery & mental abuse?

There is nothing to do. If she wants to divorce or you need to divorce her just keep records of assets and debt so that it easier to know what...

Who has primary legal custody of child if never married?

If there is no order then the presumption is that you share joint legal custody.

Can I (Dad) file a petition for custody (shared custody preferably) under these circumstances?

You could petition for custody but there is really no realistic way for you to get shared custody in New York. If you petition for custody you can...

How would I go about transferring custodial rights to my youngest daughter

She could file a custody petition but she may have issues if it is opposed as a result of her criminal history. You may want to do this on a more...

Can I still be charged with sagetery rape after 5 years passed

This is a criminal question and not a family matter. I will re-post for you.