Which Court to file for divorce ?

You need to file in Hudson county superior court.

If I have to go to court every time I get a new job does it always go retro active for child support?

It is hard to understand your question. It is not retroactive to when you got your new job. It is retroactive to the date of he filing of the...

So long as it is clear that the de t is yours alone and since it is after he filing date it clearly is. It should not be a problem.

Yes. That is generally how it is done. Arrange the pick up at your home or a location where you feel safe to meet the other parent.

How do i proceed when i filed a no fault uncontested divorce without children but my wife decided to contest the divorce?

Speak to an attorney assp. It may be too late to file a paternity action.

In order to have the transfer at a precinct, what exactly is required for the NYPD and does it come from Family or Supreme Ct?

Do you have a visitation schedule ordered? If not you need to file a petition with the family court on the county where the child resides.

Can a parent change an unfair visitation order that is not in the best interest of the child

You would have to prove that it is not in the best interest of the child and hat is not easy based on the facts you present here. The court will...

You need to hire an attorney to represent you and push back.

Child support and rights

She cannot collect child support for the last 12 years. Moreover if someone else is on the birth certificate and the child believes someone else is...

If I get a divorce in New York will that once finalized void my marriage to the same man in Virginia ?

You only need one divorce in one state. Your divorce should reference both ceremonies.