Can my mother sue my father for back owed child support?

If there was never an order for child support regarding you then there is no back owed child support. If there is child support owed from an order...

Can I get my citizenship if I divorce?

I will re-post to immigration for you, so that you can get proper answers.

How can I get a passport for my 8yr old son

If the father does not agree you can file a petition with the family court.

Do I have to list all of our assets and debts, even though an arrangement was made not to split any community property?

New York is not a community property state. I assume you mean marital property. So long as you have a proper stipulation regarding the assets...

Am I in trouble? ex girlfriend filed complaint

Don't have any contact with her whatsoever. She may pursue an order of protection through the family court.

You need to file a complaint with the police. That is the only recourse that you have based on the circumstances.

1) Can an A.D.A. be so subpoenaed? 2) If so, would I have to pay a witness fee, inasmuch as this is "job related" in a sense?

You can subpoena the ada. You may bowed to get the judge in the civil case to so order (sign) the subpoena though.

If a person is incarcerated how could u sevre that person court order papers

Serve the warden. Each facility has rules for serving inmates.

Can I get annulment

You can get a divorce. It is difficult ringer an anulment you need to prove the fraud.

Is a dentist office allowed to contact me (wife) for husbands deductible. Leaving messages and warning with late payments?

I will repost this to the proper forum so you can get answers.