How to prepare myself for a custody battle and what to expect?

Is your husband on the birth certificate? If that is the person she knows as her father and your history is the presumed father then you should...

Can I adjourn my case?

You need to file a request for a telephonic appearance and ask to have the venue changed.

If you have child support in ny and your kid moves to jersey and is 18 does your child support get terminated because nj is 18

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Yes file a petition to stop visitation if he cannot make sure your child is safe.

I have 2 girls there grandma has physical residents but we all share joint rights. How hard will it be as thefather togetcustod

It may be hard but you are the parent. You need to hire an attorney and file the proper petition.

Can i loose rights to my child if i missed visitations?

You need to speak to a pa attorney.

Why do i have to pay child support my daughter lived in my care from birth?

You need a lawyer and need to prove that the child lived with you and you supported the child.

How can I get child support when the grandmother and mother are involved in the order?

File a petition against the mother.

You need a certified translation of your divorce decree.

What do I do?

You have to let them know that it is not you and you have nothing to do with the case.