Looking to go for custody of son

You need to get a local attorney and you need to be here to appear in court when the case is on.

Do I have the right to see the non custodial parent's living arrangements and know who his roommate is?

Go to court and get a custody order in place or you have no rights.

You need the permission of the father. Otherwise you cannot do it.

Can your ex girlfriend send someone you don't know to pick up your child?

Speak to your ex. Explain that you won't turn your child over to strangers.

How or what can I do to get a appointed child attorney by the judge off my sons case?

Listen to your attorney. Don't do anything against the child attorney.

What happens to an arrears in child support if the dependant gets married before the child 21st birthday.

You would still owe the arrears the obligation does not disappear once the subject child is emancipated.

You need to speak to an attorney this is a difficult situation for you and since he doesn't work and you do, you would have an obligation to...

Can she kick me out?

You have lived there for more than 30 days so you would have to be evicted though court proceedings. However be warned that in that situation...

Once a "certificate of coverage" (for medical) is issued, can the employer terminate it prior to the date on the certificate?

You need to speak to the certificate issuer and try to hold the to the initial certificate.

The judge will not look at them unless they are properly introduced as evidence.