I am the court-ordered beneficiary for my ex's life insurance. He changed it against the settlement and I made him change it

If he dies there is no issue with relocation. You are free to move with the children wherever you decide.

Can my sons dad decide to take my son to counceling?

He should not be able to do so since he does not have legal custody.

Can I expedite the divorce process if my husband was the one who filed?

You need to supply more information as to where the case is. If it was filed is it all submitted?

What to do

I don't think that there is any basis for you to be in jail based on what you wrote.

What can I do?

What Court is this in? Hire an attorney to represent you.

He may lose his license and it will affect his ability to get a job in the future.

I will repost to immigration so that you can get proper answers.

How to enforce a family court order related to stopping recording phone conversations?

Unless you have proof that she is recording the calls then speculation will not get you very far in proving she is violating a court order.

What are my odds in winning a visitation suit for me to be able to see my granddaughter?

If the child does not know you then it will be hard for you to get visitation. You need to make yourself a part of the child's life somehow and...

Where do I go from here.

You need to file a petition for custody and prove that it would be in your son's best interest to have you as the residential custodial parent.