What do I need in family court to change support/residence status of my 19yo son who has been living with me the past 6mos?

You need to petition to terminate child support since he lives with you. And petition that she pay you support.

Will he go to jail?

It is likely that he would go to jail. But each case is fact specific.

Can you leave custody papers with someone if the person not home ?

You need to serve him personally or ask the judge for alternate service.

Can I get a divorce if I have not seen my spouse in 25 yrs?

You quills need to petition for alternate service since you cannot find him. You would need to show that you have exerted diligent efforts but have...

Can I have the child support payments given directly to my daughters since her mother has thrown her out of the home

You need to petition to cease support of child was thrown out of the home.

I live with my mom and my parents share custody, but i dont want to live with either of my parents, can i live with my sister?

Your sister can file for custody of you.

I received two summons

It seems your child’s mother was upset with the judges ruling and she filed a new petition.

Does a family court judge in NY automatically have access to a domestic incident report filed ag

No. It will not necessarily appear unless a new complaint is filed.

What can I do if I am being mentally abused during supervised visitations?

Go to court there and ask for a different supervisor.

Does not seem likely but what does the stipulation say?