What can i do?

I am sorry for your loss. You can file a violation since he is not following a court order.

Is what the judge says in court an order?

If it is not in the order and was suggested in court then it is not a violation of a court order, but could be used against the person in the...

How can i get custody of my daughters who are being abused by their mother?

You need to report this asap. A threat by a teenager to commit suicide cannot be ignored. Get an attorney file an emergent application an order...

Can a valid divorce be executed if one of the spouses is staying illegally and other has been out of US for more than 18 months?

So long as the jurisdictional requirement is met the parties may divorce or file for child support/custody regardless of their legal status.

Child Visitation?

It seems that jurisdiction is in Florida. You need to file down there. The court will likely dismiss your petition for lack of jurisdiction. The...

If i told the ADA that I do not wish to proceed with a violation of an order of protection case will the case be dismissed?

Not likely. Unless you can show that he was there and you came there and he did not know you were there, then it is possible.

Can I give up temp custody of my grandchildren?

Most likely they will remove all three children. It is not simple.

You need to contact the prosecutor and his defense attorney.

Are there any custody lawyers in NYS that can help me?

Ask the court to appoint an attorney for you based on your income.

What happens when a Family Court petition refers to an outdated order?

You need to make sure hat the current effective order is thebkne that the court is aware of.