Do you have to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that someone violated their order of protection for them to be prosecuted?

Report it and the police will decide if there is a violation sufficient for them to arrest.

Can you get a restraining order if the person is sending you none threatening text messages?

You cannot reach out to him too many times. At some point just the act of calling repeatedly is harassment.

Can my ex get a restraining order if he has no evidence that I'm harassing or threatening his life or his family?

That does sound like harassment you need to limit your contact.

What is the flow of QDRO paperwork once the language has been approved?

Once the court signs it, it becomes an order and then it is sent to the plan administrator.

CHILD SUPPORT

You cannot be made to pay for their support but income will be imputed to the father

You need to file in the home state of the twins. H elevation of where they lived for the last 6 months is their home state.

MY DIVORCE & HUSBAND BORROWED MONEY FROM MY FATHER?

You need to retain an experienced divorce attorney to represent you and make sure that you get everything that you are entitled to by law and that...

Can my ex- ask for the same relief gain after denied during oral argument, but the judge did not sign or issue "decision/order"?

It was denied because she made an oral application it may be requested on paper now.

Do I have a lawsuit against my family shelter that I am in right now

You can sue but I do not think you will prevail. It may be something you need to take care of on your own.

Will I be able to get a lawyer that's experienced with Narcissistic behavior ?

Divorce attorneys are familiar with many types of mental health issues, but we are not Dr.s we are divorce attorneys.