What do I do if I have my kids unsupervised?

Keep them and file a motion for a change in custody

If a court refuses a request to make an expired restraining order information private, can the affected party publish defense?

So long as your defense is not going to warrant a renewed petition for an order of protection theee should be no issue.

Child doesnt want to see Mother and Child Support

She can file but she may not be successful.

My daughter (12 years) hasn't received child support in 4 months. Is it possible that her father removed him self from paying?

He can't just remove himself it does not work hat way.

How can I take out an order protection ?

If you need an order of protection you can go to the local family court and file a petition.

Can I leave new York State with my 10 month old (if my girlfriend and I do not have any custody hearings in place) without issue

No that is not true at all. Consult an attorney.

I got married but he's divorce wasn't final? Do I need to do anything for the avoid or is it automatically avoid?

If he was married your marriage is void.

Do I need to go to court and ask to have my visitation schedule changed?

To have less visits? You want to go to court? You may just cancel the visits. Or you can go to court and change the schedule but that is a real...

Which right I have in the divorce situation? What percentage money can I demand from my husband ?

Ask for 50% of anything acquired or accrued by during the marriage.

Check with military law. Will he be paying child support?