Will i get violated on pretrial release if my girlfriend pressed charges for harassment but then dropped them?

It is up to your probation officer and the specific circumstances.

Hire a lawyer or court appointed for child custody?

Court appointed attorneys know the law but they do not have the time to devote to each case like a privately retained attorney does. It all depends...

Can u get a domestic partner while u still married?

No. She needs to get divorced first. Otherwise no domestic partnership.

If I move from the state my kids are in, but have petition for them, can I bring them to my house out of state ?

If you have visitation and take them to visit at your home out of state when they are not missing school then so long as you let her know where...

They an ask and if you refuse there is an inference that you use drugs. Consult an attorney. The consequences are real.

How do I file an objection that has past the 35 day mark?

If the time has passed you cannot file an objection.

The order of protection will not get you the car back. They are unrelated.

How can I change a no contact order to a refrain from order?

Petition the family court for a change on the order.

Can me and my girl friend get married if she has an order protection against me?

No. You cannot get married without significant penalties to you.

My kids is in foster care and my lawyer is not happing me everytime i ask her something she keep saying i have to talk to cps

You need to file a petition if the order to return the children is not being followed.