How can I ensure a child support order stay active even if my husband come back home?

Don’t drop it and it will continue to accrue.

How could I start a class action law suit toward the creating/instituting of legal rights for NYC legal domestic partners?

You can start it but it will be dismissed quickly. You chose not to marry.

What if someone tells you that you got petition to court in New York but your no longer in the state.?

Hire an attorney ASAP. You don’t want law enforcement coming and taking your child.

An order has been made requiring a husband to pay his ex-wife's legal fees of $65,000.00. Is this dischargeable in bankruptcy?

If payable to her attorney the it is dischargeable.

Does it really matter who between I and my abusive spouse initiates the divorce move?

I do not think that matters since you are already separated.

What if i am found in contempt during hearing ? Will i go to jaik the same day ? Or will i have time to purge myself out ?

It depends on the magistrate and the circumstances.

What are the legal requirements for CPS procedures in New York including notification of an investigation?

They are very disorganized you need an attorney that will convey this and make sure to straighten things out.

I need a lawyer to represent me to obtain order of protection against my sibling who commit domestic violence against me?

Report it to police and go to family court for an order of protection.

My kids mom lies and said never knew where was kids dad , and moved out took my child support and we both share jointed custody?

If you make more money you are the one to pay child support.

If there is a counterclaim then you contest the divorce being entered in your spouses favor and want one entered in yours.