You can try to suggest counseling but if she wants the divorce ultimately she will get it.

AA order protection was done with out me having any know of it Until my ex husband came home anddecor now he's homeless ?

How is that possible? Who complained to the police? Got to the DA and complain.

What are the next steps to take after sending in the documentation to dispute money wrongly taken for child support?

It is a real problem that she has any funds jointly held with her husband. She should avoid that at all cost. It is unlikely she will get it back.

II married a Mexican by internet. I never new that he was using me to get his citizen I have children from him can I divorce?

You can get divorced. You are allowed to divorce with no fault in New York.

Yes. But that valuation is done by an expert using a formula.

Can my daughter’s father get a recent downward modification lowered again?

Fight it. You have rights. Speak to an attorney with the details of your matter.

Can I get a restraining order on my daughter's father girlfriend

Complain to the police and if she lives with father file a petition for an order of protection.

What happens during the time between a violation hearing and a willfulness hearing? Or what is supposed to?

You need an attorney a willfulness hearing is not “pretty straightforward”.

There is no investigation but if you have such doubts maybe rethink getting married at all.

Are you moving with the child? If you are not then why would they stop you? If you are then they can stop you.