If a domestic violence victim wants the case dropped/reduced should they attend the first appearnce to speak to the judge?

The victim cannot violate the order. You can go there and try.

II put down the wrong address on my divorce papers and I wrote down the right one down one the papers ?

Amend your filing. File an amended complaint.

How can I look into my old case about myself ?

The records are not public. Speak to your case worked maybe they can help.

Can i married someone else while in a domestic partnership in nyc?

The marriage is valid. It voids the domestic partnership.

If i withdraw my I-130 petition can I still file for divorce?

You can file on New York if you meet the residency requirements.

You need to speak to an attorney ASAP. If you consented to jurisdiction in Italy you may not be able to switch.

How can I get to go live with my mom?

Your mother needs to file a petition for you. You can’t file for yourself.

What happens if the court orders me and my ex to alternate years claiming our child but my ex decides to claim on my year?

File an enforcement action of your ex does that and ask for damages and attorneys fees.

How to modify child support while living in the different country?

Depends on which country you go to. Once you move and have new circumstances you can apply for a modification of child support.

How can I find out how much I owe in arrears for child support in Brooklyn new York ?

Call the support collection unit you may be on hold a while but they will tell you.