Can she claim my pre marital 401K proceeds in divorce?

If it is solely premarital, then it sounds like it is seperate property. I strongly suggest you speak to an attorney to discuss your entire matter.

Being married 34 years I divorced my husband, married someone else, Married 10 years, want to remarry my first husband

As long as your former husband is in agreement, then best of luck!

Do i have to pay for therapists too during the visit?

Please speak to your attorney to discuss this.

Does New York State provide a lawyer for free to a mother on welfare suing for child support?

no...........................................

Out Of Control 16yr Old?

Bribe her to go to school..................

What do I do?

Just send them what they are asking for, and you will be done with the case.

How do I proceed with this?

You really should retain an attorney who specializes in adoption before doing this, if you want to be successful, especially in a case where the...

If I sign ? custody would I get child support

You need to speak to an attorney asap before you sign anything.

Why would ICE take your kid? Once he's deported, why would you want to file more full custody in court, he will be out of the picture.

How can I be informed of where my child is when he is under my ex husband's care?

You can file a motion but that would cost much time and money. See if you can get him to tell you.