How do i get Nevada state to recognize my new York state cos-tidy order?

If the child has lived in Nevada for the past 6 months, then Nevada has jurisdiction. If it is for less you can file for a writ of habeus corpus...

In new york state does grandparents have any rights.

Grandparents have rights, but are limited, and can be trumped by parents in most circumstances. Please speak to an attorney for specific help.

You may be found in contempt of Court and jailed for disobeying a Court Order. You can also have a negative inference assessed to you, and it will...

In the year 2016 in New Jersey she can do what she wants.

Concern for child...

You are always responsible for your child's well-being. You can always make the petition that the other person is not good, but you better be sure...

Should I settle my child custody/visitation/parental alienation petition or go to a hearing? I want the judge to hear my story?

It really depends on your circumstances. Sometimes a deal is better than the uncertainty of someone else making a decision. Speak to your attorney...

My pension and buy out in my home

Whatever the stipulation says rules. Take a look at it. You can also initiate an enforcement petition or motion in Supreme Court.

My ex keeps violating the parenting plan for child visitation that she originally agreed to. What are my options?

If you have a Court Order it can be enforced. If you don't you are out of luck,.

Is this right?

Have your boyfriend call a lawyer. He needs to speak to counsel.

Is there a quick process by which my lawyer can be filing to get my divorce before we settle all other issues in NY?

Speak to your attorneys and see what they have to say. Sometimes cases drag on for unexpected reasons.