Do I have any rights to keep my things and home

You need to speak with a Probate attorney and get a better sense of what to do. They also can't evict you using self help.

Can a Union refuse to payout a pension payout to a child after death of parent in a lump sum?

You need to speak to a probate attorney.

How do I go about withdrawing a petition for child custody?

Send a letter in that you are withdrawing the petition. Make sure you get a stamped copy.

Legally, am I responsible for repaying back the money?

I agree with counsel. You can't keep what's not yours. Additionally, they may fire you if you do not return it.

Can an NCP be penalized for moving into a town with high violent crime?

Not really. Otherwise parents in entire cities would lose their kids. You can bring it up though, and make sure that the child is protected in...

How long does a child have to live in NY state in order to be considered a resident?

New York will have jurisdiction once the child lives in the state for 6 months.

I want my daughter and her family to leave my house.

Unfortunately, your issue is really complex. You are able to sell your house without her permission, and then use legal methods to have her move...

You need to look at the order, and see what it says. If you feel that your kid is in jeopardy, speak to an attorney and proceed accordingly.

Can i get visitation rights and sleepovers

You should speak to an attorney to see what your options are. You should look at your Court Order for visitation and see what your are entitled to....

Can a Union refuse to payout a pension payout to a child after death of parent in a lump sum?

This is not a child custody area. Please speak to a probate attorney.