Can I "get" my visa back?

You need to speak to an immigration attorney.

How can I file for custody of my son, I live in California and he resides in New York with his mother

As the other attorney said you need to establish paternity and file for custody. All this can only be accomplished in a New York court.

The child is only three years old and my friend, his father is legal permanent resident, he applied for the child in

You should speak to an immigration attorney. It seems that you have an uphill battle. It is not your kid.

Is there a stature of limitations to reopen a divorce when it was done 1 993 or 1994. In columbus georgia

You need to speak to an attorney in Georgia who can help you.

Am I entitled to military pension after 16 years of marriage.

You need to speak to an attorney in Georgia to reopen your divorce and re-litigate the Judgement.

You can't waive service, but you don't need to appear.

Is there a charge for consultation before lawyer client relationship is established?

Every attorney sets their own fee schedules. Some give a free consultation, others don't.

The child lives with the mother .

Mom is going to have to take the kid to the Doctor, so she needs the insurance card. Any court will order that. The kid lives with the Mom.

What is the next step of a lawyer if I had one

Its unclear what you did and what you did not do.

Filing emergency contempt motion, Enforcement of medical coverage & support, after diagnosed with debilating disease.

I'm not sure as to what you are looking for. If you have an attorney please contact your attorney.