My son was abducted by a family member I once had joint custody with in 2000.She took him from school and moved him away from me

I would contact an attorney and have the attorney review your entire case history, and then the two of you can decide how to proceed from there.

Find out if my 18 year old daughter who I have contact with and pay child support has allowed her step dad to adopt her?

Where does your daughter live? You may want to check with the Court there for adoptions there.

Can I go to the family court asking for custody/schedule modification and enforcing payment?

Yes you can. Speak to an attorney first. Have the attorney review your agreement or order. Proceed from there. These are important things that need...

Generally not. Not for the reasons that you are mentioning. You should speak to your attorney for more advice.

I filed for custody..and now i dont need it ..how do i go about doing that

You can withdraw your petition in the court that you filed it in. Go to the court and tell them that, and they will tell you how to withdraw your...

Can grandparents get my child baptized without my consent if me, the father, and they have joint custody?

No. They cannot. These are important decisions that you are entitled to make. That is why its joint custody.

What age can a child decide they don't want to go to visitation with the noncustodial parent?

There is no such age. The older a kid is, we don't want to force someone to do what they don't want to do, but they really should be complying with...

I got divorced in 2015; and my ex-husband unfortunately passed away in March of this year. He left me as beneficiary

Unless your divorce agreement states that you are the beneficiary, you are no longer the beneficiary, unless after you were divorced, he renamed...

Will I get drug tested ?

Your attorney can make that request in court, if the court seeks fit they may order it, but they may order you drug tested as well.

Can a legal document be sent to a woman that has been sexting inappropriately with your husband?

Speak to an attorney. Based on what you have provided it does not seem that the woman has done anything illegal.