Hello. I have filed for custody of my 15 year old niece because she has run away from her mother

You need to file a petition in Court. They will instruct you on how to serve if you are doing it pro se. If you have an attorney, your attorney...

You may find non profilts or law school clinics that would be willing to help you free of charge. Additionally, you need to fight this, because...

I didn't add my overseas son on my N400, can I still bring him here?

You need a good immigration attorney. This will not be easy, especially for a kid, that you did not know was yours.

Annulment

You cannot sue a non spouse for annulment. Its like trying to adopt a carrot as your child.

Divorce

If you have lived in NY for 2 years you can file in NY.

Who I try to found my spouse located before publication.

Try the internet and a private eye. Court's do not like using publication, because of the potential for abuse.

Can I go to a preliminary conference without a lawyer

Yes you can. However, you are at a major disadvantage to appear without counsel. Attorneys do charge for their time. Unfortunately, waiting is a...

Divorce

You can file a petition to halt his parenting time, but you may want to speak to him to find out what is going on.

What should I do if a judge has given us a deadline to submit a custody agreement and the time has passed by a month?

If you had an attorney, your attorney would be able to contact the Court and the other attorney to find out what the holdup is. You do not have...

Can I be charged with abandonment of my children?

No. You did not abandon them. They are being taken care of.