Looking to go for custody of son

You need to hire a local attorney in Orleans County to represent you.

If my child's father is not on the birth certificate does he have any rights?

Right now, no. But he can file for paternity and custody.

What are my options?

You might want to contact the inspector general's office to complain. The problem is, that you are dealing with your livelihood, its not an easy...

MY DAUGHTER IS 5MTHS PREGANT...WANTS TO PUT BABY UP FOR ADOPTION....WILL NOT GIVE ME CUSTODY BUT I WANT BABY.....WHAT CAN I DO

Why don't you adopt the baby? Right now, you have no rights since there is no baby in the world.

What is wen child's mother attorney is a da that represented me in criminal court an now her attorney in family court

I'm not sure exactly what you are asking, but there does not appear to be a conflict. If you are in a small town it is likely that everyone knows...

Can I sue a forster care agency?

You could, but its a very high burden, and you would need to hire ($$) and retain an attorney to represent you in the lengthy litigation.

Can my husband sister win if she hasn't paid the mortgage?

You can't just kick her out. She has an ownership interest. Since you guys did not sign an agreement it will be a messy fight.

How to change my child's last name

The father must consent. As the other attorney said, you need to file a name change petition and dad must consent.

Can I get a court order to use a mediator on custody visitation?

You can't force someone to mediate. There is no legal mechanism in the judicial system in NYS.

You can get a divorce from Bed and Board which is the equivalent of a separation, and you are not fully divorced.