What can I do

Ask that your address remain confidential.

How do I find out if my sons father is collecting ssd and added my son on his case

why does it matter? If you want to modify child support, then file a petition.

How do I get custody back of my child

Please hire an attorney. Please do this for your child and yourself.

It really depends on the court rules and what you have been instructed.

Can I get,a court att for child custody??

If you meet the income requirements you should receive free counsel.

Can I state in my will that I want my older son to get custody/guardianship of his half brother if anything were to happen to me

You can say whatever you want in your will, but the Court does not have to take it into account at all. In fact their first choice will be dad,...

Will court give my son back to me with full custody?

Without an attorney you are lessening any chances you have of success. Since you did not have an Order dad took advantage of the situation. Please...

What are my rights on visitation and how my daughter gets and returns home

If it is a valid agreement, then it would be legal.

Can a women with power of attorney speak for a women in court against allegations of assult without the women present?

No, a power of attorney does not let someone testify on their behalf.

Reason to have a lawyer when I'm sure who the father is?

Nobody here knows the details of your case. It is always helpful to have counsel in court, as they are familiar with the procedure, and you are not.