Can my husband charge me for crossing state line with his kids?

It depends on what your order or agreement states. If there is no order, then you can go where you wish, but you can possibly be brought back...

Can my 2 daughters mother file as I abandoned my kids and is there a way that I can asure that she won't or can't file for child

Its not clear as to what you are asking.

If it is in the agreement, and your are describing the facts accurately it appears to be a violation. I would suggest you speak with counsel and to...

You should speak to an attorney and file a violation petition.

Can I win the case?

It really depends. Something does not sound right, if her brother got the kids instead of you. I strongly suggest speaking to an attorney asap.

Can I get arrested for violating an order of protection?

If there is a real valid reason for the OOP and ACS is involved, they may hold it against you and try to start to ruin yours and your kids lives....

I have 15,13,4 year old my husband is abusive and controlling not agreeing with noting I say and make the 2 older one againts me

You can't just move out of state. You will make things much much worse for yourself. I strongly advise you to please speak to an attorney asap, so...

Claimed on husband taxes, is it fraud? Doesn't he have to have my signature?

If you have lived long enough in NY, you can file for divorce in NY. I would reccomend speaking to an attorney for advice on how to proceed.

When is it necessary to file for custody of my 4 children?

You need to speak to an attorney asap, in order to protect you and your kids. Do you have a custody order? If not you need to obtain one asap.

Release of my file

1) You new lawyer should know how to get it. 2) If your new lawyer doesn't know how to get it, you should request it from your original lawyer....