Voluntarily giving physical custody to the father of my children. Can I get them back later.

You really need to speak with an attorney to discuss your case in detail. Please talk to your attorney. The court in order to change matters will...

Should the defendant respond or let it go to default judgement

Never let anything ever go to default judgement. Please speak with your attorney. You are risking the unknown.

Can I lose custody if father agreed to visitation hours? Then verbally allowed changes then went back to original court order.

I am not sure why you would lose custody. I strongly suggest you counsel with an attorney who can review your court orders.

How can I find out if my spouse file for uncontested divorce?

Check the county in which she resides in. You can also check E courts in NY, but it will probably only pop up if an RJI was filed.

I am in a divorce proceeding . I found that my wife is having an affair. Can I sue her lover in a civil court?

If you guys lived in North Carolina, probably. Unfortunatly (or fortunatly) you live in NYS, where you can't. Please speak with your attorney for...

Husband ran away

There are other ways to get substitute service. I strongly suggest retaining counsel to help you with this.

How to file divorce for infidelity

You need a divorce attorney. You need to plan what happens next, because even though she might have committed adultery she is still entitled to her...

Yes. You need to motion the court for alternate service. I strongly recommend that you retain counsel to achieve this. Even though paying an...

Divorce outside the country?

If the person consents to everything you may file for uncontested divorce. I strongly suggest that you speak with an attorney who can make sure...

Can I contest a decision on a divorce hearing with child support and custody if I was never notified or served?

You need to move asap to contest service and the divorce. Please speak to an attorney asap. The longer you wait the harder it is to contest it.