it's 9 months between contact enough to get a restraining ,harassment port no contact order?

If all you got were birthday cards, its hard to imagine how that would be enough for a no contact order, but I guess anything is possible.

Am I able to go after my ex for attorney fees if I win trial ?

It really depends on who the monied spouse is. Even then you may not get it, especially if it is in family court.

Hi someone file a complaint summons against me in nj and I currently live in Brooklyn ny?

If this is a civil action, it is possible that she filed a Summons and Complaint against you in NJ, if the cause of action took place in NJ. I...

Unfortunately for you, in 2017 there is no cause of action for alienation of marriage. Had this been in 1917, there might be, but then there were...

?infant son w/6yr sister, isreali born, father legal us born. Couple Sep, father got no proof 4custody, what does dad gotta do?

Since the baby was born in Israel, and lives there, then an Israeli court would have jurisdiction. I strongly suggest he obtain counsel in Israel...

Yes. Each child needs their own bed. However, she does not need her own room. Please speak to an attorney about how you can proceed.

Can I file for full custody with an option to move out of state?

You will need to speak to an attorney about how to properly file a relocation petition and be permitted to move out of the jurisdiction even though...

Please speak to your attorney for help on how to help yourself in your calculations.

Where to file uncontested divorce?

Yes, if no party challenges the venue, then you can file anywhere in NYS. Be mindful, that if for some reason there is a need for a court...

Uncontested divorces in NY generally have no appearance required.