Is Disclosing Wrong SSN a fraudulent act when used in 3 seperate Matrimonial actions? Penalties for that Atty to allow?

Speak to your attorney. What would be the fraud here?

Do I need to travel out of state if other side requested a deposition?

You should speak to your attorney. Its going to be difficult to claim that you don't have to travel to NY since you initiated the proceeding in NY...

Do I have a right to know where my child sleeps?

You should, but you cannot refuse visitation if he does not provide it.

Can a married legal immigrant file for a child obtained out of marriage although not divorced? or even if divorced

You need to speak with an immigration attorney.

This is the wrong format for relationship advice. Ask Doctor Drew.

A wokman's com settlement?

She is not entitled to it. Please speak to an attorney asap so you are represented properly.

What can I do to help my son?

If you believe that your children are in danger then you can apply for a restraining order on their behalf. You can also file a petition to modify...

Will the same judge modify her custody court orders because I am living in a shelter?

It is possible. The best thing you can do for yourself and the kids is to find a safe place to live.

Is there any legal action that I can take against my ex wife who is spreading false allegations to my current wife?

Why can't she just block her? ...........

How can I prove my husband mislead the court?

As Ms. Zakarin said, file an emergency motion. Please consult with counsel.