Can the executor of my mother's estate disregard what the will says and distribute the funds another way?

No. The will needs to be followed.

Is it possible to get a copy of a restraining or protective order?

Pacer is Federal Court. I'm not sure what you were able to find. You may wish to contact an attorney who can be more helpful. The police are...

I have a warrant in nj for breaking a restraining order that i thought was dropped what do i do to rectify this?

You need to speak to an attorney to discuss.

I unknowingly violated a TRO. What will happen?

Consider yourself lucky you weren't arrested. Please speak to counsel, and hire an attorney to defend yourself and proceed accordingly.

What are the chances I will be granted a restraining order for harassment?

It depends on all the circumstances. Please speak to an attorney to discuss.

If there is nothing in writing, then there is zero she can do. Plus the legal beneficiary is the legal beneficiary. There are no strings attached.

How to reduce liability when inheriting a NY home if heir lives in another state?

There should be insurance on the property.

Would a property liability claim be handled by estate home insurance in this case?

As counsel said, your question is confusing and hard to answer. Please speak to counsel.

Can we use are separation agreement as a divorce?

You need someone to review your 15 year old document before you do anything. The maintenance language has changed to start with.

Can executor of will include personal property of the deceased in sale of condo?

How much is the tv worth? Is it worth fighting over?