Can waiver of election be changed

Without seeing any will or any "waivers" its hard to tell.

What should I do after receiving copy of Request for Judicial Intervention?

You need to speak to your attorney asap to discuss. If you don't have one you need to retain one. You need to find out what is really going on.

How is child support and custody figured in an unconventional scenario?

You really need to speak to an attorney. As much as in theory the law is gender neutral, its based on overnights, and will favor mom. Please speak...

Judges have discretion to do that. Its rare but it happens.

What if my wife served me divorce paper but my first name is incorrect ...how do I go about this procedure

Its not clear where you are in the process. If you are in middle of litigation, then you can file a motion, to amend the caption, and will need it...

Probation?

You need to speak to an attorney to review all the documents and scenarios.

How can someone get help?

Your sister needs to consult with a matrimonial attorney to discuss her options. She has many.

How can I get a copy Of ordered dismissal if one wasn’t drawn up in court ?

You need to speak with someone in the Clerks office to get the paperwork you need.

NY STATE UNCONTESTED DIVORCE, Defendant very compliant, QDRO Is done after divorce? Can it be within the portion of the Divorce?

I am not sure what your question is. A QDRO is submitted after the divorce. Please speak to your attorney.

No. Your attorney is the only person that can file a motion for you, unless your attorney is relieved as counsel. If you are in Supreme Court in...