How how can a father put a child in foster care without him having physical sole custody of the child but the mother does

Something doesn't sound right, if your child was placed in foster care without your knowledge. Please speak to counsel.

Please hire an attorney, speak to your attorney and follow your attorney's guidance. You will not be able to do this yourself adequately.

How long does my spouse(J-1 visa holder) need to wait to become permanent resident after we get married?

About 2 years. Please speak to an immigration attorney.

Can I throw someone out of my house after 4 years of them living with me and not paying anything or working? ?

You need to contact a Landlord Tenant attorney and commence eviction proceedings.

In new York can I press charges against a 19 yr old, for helping my 17 yr old granddaughter (we have custody) run away?

Good luck with that. It will not get anywhere.

Arrested for a non violent DV case, nonsense lovers quarrel at most

Based on the information you are providing, you obviously need to retain counsel. Please do so asap.

You should speak to your attorney for advice. It is possible the creditor has been discharged.

How does a child support petition affect someone who's on parole?

Is there an order? Is there not an order. Please speak to counsel to review.

What happens if you do not include all of your jobs on child support court date?

You need to be truthful. It sounds like an attorney needs to be retained.

Can a 16 year old decide not to Speak to his mother legally in NY ?

Please hire counsel. Speak to your attorney and follow your attorney's advice.