Can the father of my kids be deported if I take him to court for child support?

One should have no bearing on the other.

II haven't seen my husband in 22 years can I get a divorce and how?

You will need hire an attorney. If you fine a good PI you might be able to locate him and serve him at little cost. Please speak to counsel.

Can anyone or company buy me out of my 50% of my home even if im not on the? Mortgage..

I strongly suggest that you speak with an attorney as soon as possible. You may have many different options including filing a proper motion for...

How can i not have to return my three boys to my soon to be ex?

You can not violate court orders. If this contravenes the order you will need to seek to amend the order.

What can I do if my ex refuses to cooperate with visitation?

As counsel said you need to sit down and with your attorney to discuss this matter in length and detail.

You probably should obtain counsel and begin to find out how you can turn the tables.

Family court?

You need to obtain counsel and immediately file a motion to vacate along with your own petition.

Can I move out of state with my son ?

Get that agreement in writing or it is worthless.

Can I move out of the apartment before filing for a divorce? Do we need to be officially divorced before moving out?

Before you do any of this, you need to speak with an attorney asap before you make an unforced error. Don't move out unless you have your ducks in...

Can I move out of state without informing baby's father?

If you leave the state, and he finds out, he has the ability to file a motion with the court and the court will drag you back with the child to NJ....