I just learned that my husband for almost 10 years divorced me in another country. I was wondering if it's valid in the US.

If you were noticed and the divorce is valid then it may be valid in the USA. I strongly suggest you speak with counsel, and provide the attorney...

Does a soon to be ex-husband adoptive father has any rights over the biological father living with mother in custody cases?

You really need to speak to counsel, and provide them with more information. These things are a bit tricky and you can't do it yourself.

How to get a cheap separation

If you are the victim of spousal abuse there may be various non profits that are willing to assist you.

If I don't want to press charges on my husband but he got a warrant would he still have to do jail time?

He might. Once you sign the witness statement, the decision lies with the ADA. He needs a good attorney to help him with this.

How do i get any traction against my ex, who manipulates information and the schedule?

If there is a court order or an agreement that you need to pay for the day care, then you need to follow it. I strongly suggest you make sure...

if my spouse fails to pay amount she owes on credit card

The bank cannot go after you for the monies, however if you are getting divorced, the debt may qualify as marital debt, which you may be...

How and what do I need to file abandonment charges in Washington county ?

Personally, i wouldn't do anything. If you have Sole Legal Custody, all you would be doing is stirring up dad to cause trouble.

Legally shouldn't both parents know the addresses as to where their child lives when he's with the other parent?

Yes for well being, but not the harass the other side.

Yes. They can. If you owe them the money they may try to come after you for it. Please speak with your attorney.

Can a college aged girl with a baby file for bankruptcy?

Yes. But remember bankruptcy stays with you your entire life. You may want to speak to an attorney to see what your options are.